The Laws of My Soul
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Success
How many of us walk into an interview thinking, “I’m not going to get this job?” A lot of us, right? In all honesty that’s probably why you DIDN’T get the job. Success has never been a physical thing and never will be. MONEY is not success…getting that JOB is not success. The mind set that you possess to get that job, the money is your success. Some many times we defeat ourselves with the lack of faith we have in ourselves. In took me two years to figure out that I was defeating myself. I was counting being a scholar at Boston University to my success. Not realizing even the smartest people sitting next to me could own the success that I did. My success is not measured by the things I obtain, money, grades, clothes, houses, cars…none of it. My success is measured my determination, my courage, my confidence and my faith. At one point in my life I thought that maybe certain things were a waste of time. I felt like I didn’t deserve anything. Then some wise woman reminded me that I have no control over that. Who am I, who are you to say what you deserve? If you didn’t deserve, my God wouldn’t have gave it to you. “How can you expect GOD to help you climb the mountain when you won’t even take the first step?” I had to learn that the hard way. All the praying you’re doing for a job, a raise, a car or whatever is that you want means nothing if you’re still doing the same thing you were without a car, a job, a promotion or whatever it is you want. You can everything anyone can dream of and have material success but once those things are stripped of you what’s left? Money, titles, and status doesn’t make you successful. If you want to be successful make you sure you matter to someone. When you pass away make sure that your life made a difference.
Law 9: You don’t get to decide what you deserve.
Law 10: Never give up even when it seems like it’s the end
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The Laws of My Soul
This is the generated list of laws from other posts. Underneath the laws you can find the name of the blog entry that laws relate to.
Law 1: Don’t make sex complicated when it doesn’t have to be.
Law 2: Do what makes you feel good as long as you’re truly happy doing so.
Law 3: Your sex life is private!!! You are not obligated to share that with anyone.
S.E.X
Law 4: Realize your worth!!!
Law 5: Demand R.E.S.P.E.C.T
I’m Single
Law 6: Be sure to get what you deserve
Law 7: Don’t be afraid to say what you want
My Love is the Shhh (R rated)
Law 8: Don’t limit your experiences because of society’s attitude towards something.
Valentine’s Day
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”DONT START A FIRE IF YOU’RE AFRAID OF THE FLAME
THE FLY CHART (via getbackkkk)
(Source: the-straightz)
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Perfect Love
One thing I desired was a perfect love life. I felt like no other relationship in my life was perfect maybe I deserve to have the perfect love life. I just knew that God would send me a man that made me happy to the deep core of my soul. I knew that everything would be perfect. His smell would be captivating. I would be able to smell his sweet aroma before he approached me. His smile would be breath taking. My heart would race just by watching him smile and I would be filled with joy. His arms would be big enough to carry me and all of my baggage. I would never want to break him with my baggage so I would never lay it on him but the things that would make me reluctant to let him love me will sometimes escape. He would be strong enough to hold on to me even through those times. His hands would be big enough to stretch across the small of my back only to catch me before I fall and to always be there to remind me that I am never alone. His eyes will light up every time he looks at me and through them I will see his soul and know that he is in fact my soulmate. I will know that there is no other soul to match mine. His heart beat will be the perfect melody to my song that my soul sings. His dance will match the beat of my heart. His song will be lullaby. His words will be my truth. His dreams will be my mission. His everything will be me. Our devotion will be powerful. We will be honest with each other even in the hard times. Our love will be divine. We will always keep God as number one in our hearts and in our relationship. Our friendship will be remarkable. We will make each other laugh through the pain. Our trust will be unbelievable. We will close our eyes to the dark and embrace the light of life. We will remember what life was like without one another. Before our, before we…there was…He would wait for me. He would respect me. He would dance with me with no music playing. He would hug me lifting from my feet spinning me. He would make me laugh. He would make me happy. He would tell everyone that I am his. He would hold me tight. He would wipe my tears. He would listen. He would share his heart. He would ask. I would say yes. I would walk. I would say I do. He would I say I do. He would kiss me. He would lift me from my feet carrying me away to happiness. He would take me somewhere I’ve never been. I would sit on the bed. He would walk in. I would wink. He would say “She’s just for me.” I would turn off the light. I would be glad that we did it right. We would be happy. We would be perfect, the perfect love for each other. I would smile and say thank you silently as look to the heavens.
My words
Love,
TruSpoken
Danielle Galloway
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Valentine’s Day
Being the hopeless romantic that I am…my favorite holiday is Valentine’s Day. Every time I say this people say of course, but your reason is wrong. I love Valentine’s Day because I am in love with love. The mysterious unexplainable aspect about it, is my favorite. Or maybe it’s the fact that even I can’t control it. Anyway, it’s the day when the world pretends for a moment to be at my level. I smile at couples I see on the street day to day, old couples, flowers on boss desk from her husband. I don’t know I just can’t help it. I don’t need my own special Valentine, I have you all. You all are my Valentine. I am treated with the simple smiles on your faces, the hand and hand embraces, the laughs over dinner, the stroll around the park, the hand on the small of her back, and the twinkle in her eye when she looks at you. I don’t need someone to go over the top sending me dozens of dozens of flowers and words of hallmark. If I had a special Valentine all he’d have to do is write a simple line. He could even send it to me anonymously or stand at my door and wait for me. The thing that makes a special Valentine perfect is the one thing that makes him one of a kind. Balloons, chocolates, cards, teddy bears are all the same. The only difference is where he signed his name. Be original and do nothing. Simply tell me Happy Valentine’s Day kiss me on the cheek while holding me in a tight embrace randomly on the street. You might think that I am making up things, but truth is I like chocolate, teddy bears, cards and rings. If that’s what you want to give me genuinely from the heart, I’ll take it no complaints. Honestly I think that you think that’s a requirement for Valentine’s Day. To be quite honest it is because the holiday is a hallmark holiday. But the perfect special Valentine would make his own rules and make me fall in love with them. To all of my Valentine, HAPPY EARLY VALENTINE’S DAY.
-Do something different this year and make it special just for you and that someone.
Law 8: Don’t limit your experiences because of society’s attitude towards something.
Love the hopeless romantic,
Dani G.
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”People often say that “beauty is in the eye of the beholder,” and I say that the most liberating thing about beauty is realizing that you are the beholder. This empowers us to find beauty in places where others have not dared to look, including inside ourselves.
Salma Hayek
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My Love is the Shhh (R rated)
“Girl you’ll never find another love as good as this…”
Oh you men, crack me up. All talk and no play. A friend of mine asked me how come so many men brag about their performance but there are so many women that have never had an orgasm.
Ok I was mean before but the truth is women are much harder to please. Because men are truly simple. And just as complicated as men think women are, women organs are just as complicated. To really please a woman allowing her to reach her peak, you have to do your research. No, not on google but on her body. You have to pay attention to her breathing, to the way her body responds to you. I’ve heard you men bragging about her screaming and moaning….ummm I know this may be new to you but it’s really easy for her to make herself sound like it feels wonderful. But she can’t fake trembling, she can’t fake lose her breath when you stroke her in that spot. You men are so into yourselves that you don’t notice these things but that’s how you get her there. And when she push you to get away here’s a little secret…you got her. It feels too good and you could probably give her the orgasm of her life but you got to pay attention. The secret really is to pay attention and aim to please. Make her feel comfortable enough to let you take her there. All this bragging you’re doing is ummm how do I put this…LIES. Mediocre sex is what most women experience.
WOMEN
You have to be able to tell your man or sex partner what you want. You have to be able to really let him know what feels good and what doesn’t. If something is awkward don’t just laugh it off, say something “Baby I met it’ll feel better if you do it like this…” And show him. Some men need a little direction and some are to egotistical to listen but don’t worry I already told them and you should to. If you tell him that it was alright and not the best you’ve had maybe he’ll start to listen. I’m just saying.
*Response*
Law 6 Be sure to get what you deserve
Law 7 Don’t be afraid to say what you want
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I’m Single
Why am I single?
When things go wrong in relationships people quickly blame the other person. No one is quick to own up to their contributions in the fail of the relationship. There is a lesson to be learned in every experience. If you are single constantly, you are not learning the lesson. One of my friends told me that if you don’t fix the problem in your last relationship the same problem may exist in the next one. I thought about that and I thought I’d share it with you all.
To answer your question “Why am I single,” it’s because you keep attracting the same kind of men. Whether they are all afraid of commitment, or just selfish. Selfish men are those that like the life of having many women to enjoy but they also want that one woman to stand by their sides. Selfish. You keep finding yourself ending a relationship or on the other end being broken up with because you don’t realize how much you’re worth. You’ve begun settling for less, you think that as long as you’re not alone you will be okay, but you end up alone anyway. You need to figure out how much you are worth and demand the respect you deserve. I promise you won’t be single anymore, at least not for long periods of time. REAL men are attracted to confident independent women. Those that prey on vulnerable women are not the ones you want so chuck up your DEUCES! You are worth so much more!!! If you’re single from that point on, it’ll be because you want to be.
Law 4 Realize your worth!!!
Law 5 Demand R.E.S.P.E.C.T
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